We can all use some constructive advice on finding a partner who is available and loving. Countless self-help books guide us to find the love by playing by “the rules” when really the answer lies with honesty and trust in oneself and in the gifts that the universe has to offer. Letting go of the Emotional Past and Choosing to Love Yourself shows us that we must love unconditionally and purely and it is only then that we will find our true soul mate.